Why I Believe IHOP is a Cult

Posted: February 18, 2009 in Cult, IHOP, Leaving a cult, Uncategorized

A cult? Strong word you might say…and you are correct. It is not a word I use lightly or carelessly to label anything. But much prayer, time and years of research and personal experience have brought me to the conclusion that I can say confidently that the root system–or foundation–that IHOP is built on follows the basic premises and signs of a cult religious group. When I first left IHOP, I went through a severe culture shock that is hard to put into words. When I began studying the signs of cult fallout and the things that cult members go through after leaving a cult, my eyes began to open to what I had been a part of and recently come out of.

Below I have listed some common signs of cult operation.  Below them I cit in RED text short examples of my personal experiences as IHOP which illustrates these particular signs in IHOP’s day to day practice.  After 6 years of being out of IHOP I still hold to my position that it is a dangerous place for people’s hearts and I have seen much destruction of families, relationships and marriages of those who have been involved with this movement.

I appreciate your taking the time to read and prayerfully consider the research and personal testimony I have included below.

1. A destructive cult tends to be totalitarian in its control of its members’ behavior. Cults are likely to dictate in great detail not only what members believe, but also what members wear and eat, when and where members work, sleep, and bathe, and how members think, speak, and conduct familial, marital, or sexual relationships.

As an intern at IHOP, our day to day lives were closely monitored and dictated. I was not allowed to go anywhere or leave IHOP premises without express verbal permission from a community leader except on our one day off. Our schedules started early in the morning with hours in the prayer room, then classes, then back to the prayer room. Our nights often ran late with required attendance at EGS (Encounter God Services) or any other special event Mike spoke at that we were required to attend. Sometimes we had to attend worship sets that ended at 10 pm or midnight. Sleep was minimal and was often un-restful when I did get it. Sleep deprivation is a commonly used tactic in many cult groups to weaken the mind and make a person more susceptible to the embracing of the doctrines taught by that cult. There are many biological and psychological effects of sleep deprivation on the mind.

2. A destructive cult tends to have an ethical double standard. Members are urged to be obedient to the cult, to carefully follow cult rules. They are also encouraged to be revealing and open in the group, confessing all to the leaders. On the other hand, outside the group they are encouraged to act unethically, manipulating outsiders or nonmembers, and either deceiving them or simply revealing very little about themselves or the group. In contrast to destructive cults, honorable groups teach members to abide by one set of ethics and act ethically and truthfully to all people in all situations.

Anyone who rebelled against IHOP’s rules went through a strict disciplinarian process. At its most minimal level of discipline, for an intern, this meant the loss of having a day off and having to do manual labor. Everyone was kept on a short leash. We also had weekly groups as interns that we were required to participate in where everyone was “interrogated” and pressured to open up and share their personal struggles, etc and answer personal questions about their lives, struggles, thoughts, fears, and walks with G-d. It often felt like going to some kind of confession (as in Catholocism) and some interns out and out refused to be so vulnerable and disclosing in front of people they did not know. We were all given journals and told that we had mandatory writing assignments to complete. We were to record details of our IHOP prayer room times, things God spoke to us, dreams, visions, or whatever else that happened in us spiritually and then had to turn in our journals weekly to have an internship leader review/read them. In the last month or so I was at IHOP I paid particularly close attention to the fact that internship leaders ironically prayed things over me in prayer times or at the altar in the prayer room that related directly to things I had put in my journals. So what often might have seemed prophetic was the result of the information about me they already had access to.

3. A destructive cult has only two basic purposes: recruiting new members and fund-raising. Altruistic movements, established religions, and other honorable groups also recruit and raise funds. However, these actions are incidental to an honorable group’s main purpose of improving the lives of its members and of humankind in general. Destructive cults may claim to make social contributions, but in actuality such claims are superficial and only serve as gestures or fronts for recruiting and fund-raising. A cult’s real goal is to increase the prestige and often the wealth of the leader.

They were always an underlying pressure to bring people into IHOP. We were encouraged to invite others and get them to join what we were doing. IHOP campaigns big time to recruit new interns. At every conference, advertising and marketing videos are used to this day to promote the internships. They are played on large TV screens like presidential campaigns and are just part of the propaganda used to “sell” young people on this new version of what walking with God is supposed to look like.

Each intern paid $4,500 to attend a 6 month internship. This covered some books/teaching material we were given as well as food, lodging etc. Check this out though: Every intern lived in the Hernhutt apartments (located next door) which IHOP owned anyway so the only expense was utilities and general upkeep. There was no rent. Plus when there was a mandatory fasting day, weekend, week, etc. no meals were served. So those who didn’t choose to fast had to go out and buy food and no interns were not allowed to have jobs so this got to be a big expense since there wasn’t extra money to live on.

I lived in a 2-bedroom apartment. It housed 6 girls from the ages of 20-23. 4 of us shared one room and 2 shared another. The prayer room costs nothing to attend and is free and open to the public. So hmmm….$4,500 for meals, my electric bill and some IHOP books. I currently live in my own apartment, pay all of my own bills including rent, food, gasoline, renter’s insurance, credit card bills, student loans, electric, cell phone, etc etc and ALL of that costs me approximately $1,500 a month. So basic math says that someone was getting a big paycheck because my expenses would have never cost that in an internship program where we were given so little.

4. A destructive cult appears to be innovative and exclusive. The leader claims to be breaking with tradition, offering something novel, and instituting the ONLY viable system for change that will solve life’s problems or the world’s ills. But these claims are empty and only used to recruit members who are then surreptitiously subjected to mind control to inhibit their ability to examine the actual validity of the claims of the leader and the cult.

In the time I was there Mike often used “them and us” types of statements when referring to “the church” or those outside of IHOP. We were given a sense of being on the “cutting edge” because we were ahead of the church and were doing something new & innovative that was going to sweep the world. It all sounded good so everyone wanted to be in on it as a “forerunner” and liked the label of being on the front lines. So no one dared questioned it.

5. A destructive cult is authoritarian in its power structure. The leader is regarded as the supreme authority. He or she may delegate certain power to a few subordinates for the purpose of seeing that members adhere to the leader’s wishes. There is no appeal outside his or her system to a greater system of justice. For example, if a schoolteacher feels unjustly treated by a principal, an appeal can be made to the superintendent. In a destructive cult, the leader claims to have the only and final ruling on all matters.

Our family became friends with a Jewish couple who were in KC for a conference. They were part of an orthodox Jewish congregation in Israel and were missionaries in the US. They had some grave concerns and red flags (regarding IHOP’s theology, the model that is used with everything IHOP related, etc) that they attempted to meet with Mike and discuss. After being brushed off by Mike multiple times in his refusal to meet with him…even though they were Jewish leaders from Israel and Mike knew of them, he finally told these friends of ours that “This is how we do things here. This is just how IHOP is. It’s not for everyone.” If there was something you didn’t like or didn’t agree with, you were basically told “IHOP wasn’t for everyone so if you couldn’t handle it, maybe you shouldn’t be here.” There was no actual accountability for anything deemed wrong/un-Biblical. We were told that IHOP has its own “culture” and you must assimilate into that culture and language to really understand it. If you had a problem with something, you were told that you just had not been around long enough to understand how they did things OR that you just weren’t a good fit. These were the answers I was given when I met with internship leaders right before leaving. There was never actual admittance of wrong doing or hurting anyone who was caught in the crossfire.

6. A destructive cult’s leader is a self-appointed messianic person claiming to have a special mission in life. For example, leaders of flying saucer cults claim that beings from outer space have commissioned them to lead people away from Earth, so that only the leaders can save them from impending doom.

Every intern was required to listen to the 12 hours of IHOP’s recorded history on CD footage. Much of this content was heavily edited before its publication. These tapes told of “prophetic words” and signs that were given to some of Mike’s mentors (Bob Jones, Paul Cain, etc)—who were all naming him as the leader of the next “big thing” God was doing. Over and over and over again I’ve heard it said (both directly by Mike as well as from others) that he (Mike) would be the leader of a movement that “changed the nature and expression of Christianity in the earth”. Every time, all recognition points to Mike. His “mission” to transform the church and capture the hearts of America’s youth has been his declared goal since the early 1980’s. One of the major dangers is that these grandious sounding claims and “prophetic” words are laden with flattery, narcissism, elitism and are a perfect guise under which anything Mike introduces through IHOP can fall under the heading of being a “new thing” God is doing.

This elitist teaching puts Mike on a pedestal and he has a Messianic-like devoted following of people who would do anything if he told them to without a moment of questioning or hesitation. From my observations and experiences on staff, IHOP members do not think for themselves or question Mike’s interpretation of scripture or the slant in the way he teaches it. At any conference, one will easily observe that if Mike recommends a book or promotes a teaching, a t-shirt or a speaker, at the next break, ALL of that item will be sold out in their bookstore. When I was on staff, I heard people continually sing Mike’s praises around the clock and quote more of what Mike says or thinks or teaches than actual scripture.

Mike has an alluring charisma and many seem to be instantly drawn to his convincing appearance of direction and purpose. He teaches with passion and emotion rather than truth and it’s that charisma that draws and hooks people causing many to blindly follow (and defend) his message.

I believe that the IHOP lifestyle by and large sets people up for disillusionment through the false hope that its deception provides. It is a pseudo, manufactured reality where people are told “you can live in Nirvana and enjoy the ‘high’ of being in God’s presence 24/7 and that can be ALL that you live for” so people sell all that they have, buy into a dream and move across the country to be a part of a ministry that makes captivating claims…and then their world often crumble to ashes when things aren’t as they seem once they arrive.

Mike’s primary target and focus is on the young people. His appeals from the pulpit and his well-polished speeches aim at capturing the hearts of America’s youth. Children and youth are not told or encouraged to respect or honor the parents G-d gave them. Instead, wedges are driven between families and a seed of pride, rebellion and elitism gets planted into the hearts of youth when they are told things like the following…

This is a very close paraphrase of what I’ve heard many, many times at One Thing, IHOP conferences and in teachings by leaders:

“YOU are called to be on the cutting edge. Come here and join a community of other people who are like you, called to what you’re called to. We understand you. You’ve been mis-understood in the church. You’ve had your wings clipped, your gifts misunderstood. Here you can fulfill your forerunner calling that your family just hasn’t understood about you. You might feel like you don’t fit back home, you’re on the outside, no one understands the fire in you. Well we get it. You are the leaders that G-d is raising up in these end times and you will be kings and queens on the earth—reigning with Him. You were made for this place. IHOP is an incubator for people like you.”

Narcissistic speeches like this instill a sense of pride, arrogance and elitism in the hearts of youth who hear it and it feeds their need for validation and identity. They run to IHOP, leave their families, join internships…hoping that what they’ve heard is true. They go to IHOP looking for identity…instead of finding it in Jesus.

Once outside of the IHOP environment, they are terrified and overwhelmed by the “real” world and don’t know how to function in it when they’ve been in an intensive internship environment. There is a degree of re-acclimating to normal life that feels like an IHOP detox afterward. It’s a severe emotional drop because the hyped up services and conferences that were your manna are now gone and when there is no prayer room, your life in God feels empty and lifeless. Many simply don’t know how to engage with God in a real day-to-day basis once they’ve left. I experienced this and heard the exact same thing from a handful of my friends after they left IHOP and the internship. At that point when disillusionment sets in, I know many interns that walked away from God completely upon leaving the internship and went back into lifestyles worse than the ones they left when they came to IHOP originally.

7. A destructive cult’s leader centers the veneration of members upon himself or herself. Priests, rabbis, ministers, democratic leaders, and other leaders of genuinely altruistic movements focus the veneration of adherents on God or a set of ethical principles. Cult leaders, in contrast, keep the focus of love, devotion, and allegiance on themselves.

I believe my statements above illustrate this so I won’t be redundant.

8. A destructive cult’s leader tends to be determined, domineering, and charismatic. Such a leader effectively persuades followers to abandon or alter their families, friends, and careers to follow the cult. The leader then takes control over followers’ possessions, money, time, and lives.

Youth are pumped up at conferences and then go home to tell their parents they are moving to Kansas City to join IHOP, be part of an internship, etc. At the time, sadly, they don’t realize how much more they are giving up and leaving behind than just their families. I was hurled into a system that took control of my time, when I ate, slept, had time alone, etc. Picking up the pieces of my heart and rebuilding a Biblical view of God after getting outside of IHOP was quite a long process. I hope that by sharing all of this, I am able to spare others the heartache of what I went through.

 

Please don’t just take my word for it. Start doing your own research. Ask the Father to lead you as you pursue what is TRUTH. Don’t just stop at the facts–look deeper. Do Google searches on cults and ask the Lord to unveil deceptions.

Blessings to you on your journey of walking with Him.

Below I have listed some common signs of cult operation. Below them, I cite in RED text short examples of my personal experiences at IHOP which illustrates these particular signs in action. After 5 years of being out of IHOP, I still hold to my position that it is a dangerous place for people’s hearts and have seen much destruction of families, relationships and marriages of those who have been involved with this movement.

I appreciate your taking the time to read and prayerfully consider the research and personal testimony I’ve included below.

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  4. dianne says:

    I have attended IHOP KC. off and on for about 10 years. I was attending the church before there was a prayer room called IHOP. I left for about 6 years and just in the past 4 months came back. I have talked to many very precious people wanting to love and be loved by our Lord and Savior Jesus the Messiah. Recently a young woman from Virginia who left a good job and everything to come here, because she believed what she heard on the broadcast. She is the one who lead me to this website. Her life will be changed forever by the experience. Not for the good. Lucky for her she read the website prior to joining “Fire in the Night”. I think money is the root of all evil. Parents check into this one very well before sending your children here.
    This ministry once was of the Lord. Jesus still resides here. Wherever his name is used he is there.
    We must all pray for this ministry, that any evil will be ex[psed. Jesus is the way maker he makes a way where there is no way.
    The young woman I wrote of is a very gifted woman of God. She did not deserve what she walked into. Psalm 91.

    In Christ
    Dianne
    Jesus is the same today, tomorrow and forever.

    • Ariel says:

      Dianne, I am sorry to hear about the experience your friend Virginia had. I pray the Lord’s healing for her and her situation. I’m thankful to hear that reading my experiences prevented her from possible further wounding by getting involved “deeper” into IHOP’s programs. Scripture tells us that the LOVE of money is the root of all evil. Money in and of itself is not inherently bad…it’s the way it’s mis-used and the greed for it that corrupts man’s hearts. Yes, IHOP does need a great deal of prayer. There are very sincere people there who love the Lord. But it seems the blinders over people’s eyes when it comes to IHOP and their teachings are getting darker.

  5. Kand says:

    A friend of mine has recently been attending Portland House of Prayer. She mentioned IHOP to me. I’m trying to find information as to whether this is a cult … or a more in depth “spiritual awareness”. She has been a conservative christian and just recenlty has “been ovewhelmed” by the spirit and started shaking. Is this just another church/organization that believes in the manifestation of the gifts…or is it something more? I don’t want to hinder her walk with the Lord (if it is from Him), but if it isn’t what should I do????

    • Ariel says:

      Kand, you mention some very key things and have some really insightful questions. I’d be happy to talk this out further with you. Feel free to drop me an e-mail at midnightbookworm@gmail.com. I’ll offer any encouragement and insight I can from my own experience…although my blog posts will answer a lot of what you are asking. Check out the post on “Are Manifestations Really From G-d?” and “Does Acts 2 Justify Drunk Manifestations?” There is a link on the home page now where you can access all of my blogs from one spot and search for titles. Blessings to you and thank you for posting.

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    • Chad Harvey says:

      Thanks for the information on IHOP being a cult. We need to hear more from its former members. This movement is getting larger by the minute and will only continue to do so until we as Christians unite to expose the errors and bring it down once and for all.

    • Rebecca says:

      Ariel, I used to be heavily involved in a local house of prayer before the Lord opened my eyes and peeled back the deception that was slowly taking over. My beliefs and opinions of God were changed. It has taken months and I am still trying to pick up the pieces. It has been harder than I could’ve imagined to break free from this. I am saddened by this generation being led astray into a false reality. I continue to pray for those I know are being led astray. Feel free to email me if you are able to chat more about the process for you coming out of this. Thanks.

  7. angel says:

    I have been researching IHOP for some time off and on. I am in agreement with you with the information in this post. I have left a church operating in the same theology and dynamics almost a year ago and it took several months to get mind back. Confusion was a constant state for awhile and I am thankful to have clarity now.

    The church I was in had three splits in the almost two years I was there and one of the splits came from a group who started their own local IHOP, I won’t put the name of their prayer center, it conflicted with the pastors and it turned into a battle of “who actually hears God’s voice”. I had kept my distance from that group but it made me want to find out more about IHOP, I even emailed IHOP because I was so upset with the division it had caused not only in our church but our community. I asked them about their practices and how they dealt with such issues as church divisions linked to their emphasis to starting prayer centers. I received no response.

    I have had to cut all ties with the people from the church and from people in the prayer group. I simply cannot be around it. When I do see them out I feel the pressure of “are they trying to “read” me”, “are they going to tell others I am not being spiritual”, I have this feeling of I am just not doing enough for God they must be more spiritual.

    I know that is a lie and I quickly ask God to help remove those thoughts but the anxiety is real. All of that being said I have a question. Why are there not more people who are writing about their experiences? It seems with all of the people going in and out of there and with all of the many prayer centers popping up why aren’t there more issues being spoken about? Do you have any ideas or opinions about this? Just wondering.

    Thanks for your post and your blog this needs to be shared to help people not loose their faith in God and stop putting faith in people who are not operating in their best interest.

    Blessings,
    Angel

    • Ariel says:

      Hello Angel,

      I’m sorry to hear that you walked through such a painful situation and am thankful that you have come out of it and are finding healing and freedom. Yes, confusion comes hand in hand with spiritual abuse as does the feeling of “never being or doing enough” that you spoke of in your post. I experienced that constantly when I was part of IHOP and the true rest and freedom that came to my heart after being free from that striving was indescribable. Do we all desire to grow closer in fellowship with the Lord? Absolutely. But it is a journey and one that we take walking hand in hand with Him…not chasing after him like a crazed, headless chicken trying to catch a God that is running away from us. He is near to those who call upon Him and He is faithful to lead us step by step into greater trust. Our relationship with Him is based upon trust and that is not what IHOP teaches. They teach striving after God and hunting Him down. There is a constant reach for something that feels elusive and beyond grasping. This is not the character or nature of the God of the Bible.

      In answer to your question about why more people don’t write about their experiences, I only know of blogs, etc written by those who are currently IN an IHOP internship, are on staff, etc. They use their blogs as a means of gaining financial support and keeping their financial partners informed of what they are doing. I believe that there are 2 main reasons more people don’t write of their experiences. There may be more than 2 but these are the ones that come to mind:

      1) Fear. Fear of retaliation. Fear of people from IHOP finding out who they are, what they are saying, etc. Fear of being ostracized by others, etc.

      2) The pain is still so fresh that they are focusing on becoming healed themselves and are simply not in a place to help heal others. I was out of IHOP more than 5 years before I started this blog. It took a few years after first leaving to put pieces together, do research and walk through my own grieving and healing process. Only then did I really come to a place where I felt whole and healed enough that I could in turn minister to others who were hurting and currently walking through some thing I had come out of and could perfectly relate to.

      There are many out there who do talk about their experiences of being involved in cults and dangerous fringe groups. There are many who, as they become healed, become part of others’ healing as they minister to others who have suffered from spiritual abuse by sharing their own experiences. But many are sharing their stories in person and simply not online in this format where others can read about it. If you do come across other blogs written by former IHOPers, please let me know. Click here to view another blog post which has some pretty telling video testimonies of those who have come out of cults.

      Hope this helps to answer your question. Feel free to visit anytime and thank you for sharing your story Angel. Blessings!